I have been contemplating a tattoo. I think it’s a control thing. You know, like I still have some control over what I do with myself. I am not entirely beholden to my children and their world.
That said, I want to make it really count, which is why I haven’t gotten one yet. I don’t want some misspelled Italian word a la Hayden Panettiere. I don’t want a cliche butterfly, or even worse some Asian character meaning peace (or spaghetti). These are great tattoos for people that find meaning in them (some people really love spaghetti).
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